Same Sex Couples

Fayetteville Same-Sex Family Law Attorney

Helping North Carolina Same-Sex Couples With Divorce & Other Family Matters

Recent developments in state and federal laws have opened the doors for same-sex marriage in North Carolina and across the nation. Even before these landmark legal decisions, Victoria Gillispie Hardin has been an ally for LGBT individuals and families with family law needs.

We are strong allies for gay, lesbian, transgender and bisexual individuals and families throughout Cumberland and Moore Counties, North Carolina.

Ms. Hardin and our legal team are here to guide you through your family law issues.  We solely represent clients in Cumberland and Moore Counties.


Reach out to us at (910) 565-6505 or contact us online to arrange your consultation with a knowledgeable same-sex family law attorney in Fayetteville.


Why Choose Our Same-Sex Divorce Attorneys in Fayetteville?

At Hardin Law Firm, PLLC, we understand the unique challenges involved in same-sex divorce. Navigating the legal landscape in North Carolina requires a nuanced understanding of both state and federal laws. Our team is dedicated to providing meticulous and compassionate legal guidance throughout this process. 

Choosing the right lawyer can make all the difference. Here's why Fayetteville residents choose Hardin Law Firm, PLLC:

  • Detail-Oriented Preparation: We prepare each case with thorough documentation and tailored strategies.
  • Accessible & Supportive: Multiple locations ensure we’re reachable when you need us most.
  • Experienced Representation: Led by Victoria Gillispie Hardin, known for impactful advocacy and client dedication.

Our dedication to offering localized services means we address not only the legal concerns but also the emotional and logistical aspects that our clients might encounter. We actively participate in the Fayetteville community and leverage local networks to provide a comprehensive support system for our clients.

Understanding Your Rights As a Same-Sex Couple in North Carolina

Navigating legal matters as a same-sex couple can present unique challenges, but understanding your rights is crucial. At Hardin Law Firm, we are committed to empowering our clients with knowledge and guidance tailored to their specific needs. It’s essential to be aware of the legal protections available to you, especially concerning issues like marriage, adoption, and parental rights.

Here are some critical legal aspects every same-sex couple should consider:

  • Marriage Rights: Understand how state and federal laws apply to your marriage and any potential benefits you may be entitled to.
  • Adoption Laws: Learn about the processes and legal frameworks governing same-sex couple adoption in Fayetteville and beyond.
  • Estate Planning: Ensure your partner’s rights are protected with proper estate planning that accounts for joint property and inheritance matters.
  • Domestic Partnerships: Explore the implications of domestic partnerships and how they differ from marriage in terms of legal recognition and benefits.

By partnering with Hardin Law Firm, you gain access to a supportive team that understands the nuances of LGBTQ+ family law. We are here to answer your questions, provide clarity, and advocate for your rights every step of the way. Reach out to us today to discuss your legal needs and take the first step toward securing your family's future.

Handling Common Issues in Same-Sex Divorce

North Carolina courts aim to ensure equality and fairness in divorce proceedings, though the interpretation of these laws can evolve. Staying informed of these legal precedents allows us to advocate effectively for our clients. We provide comprehensive consultations to explore your unique circumstances, discuss potential legal strategies, and inform you of your rights throughout the divorce process.

At Hardin Law Firm PLLC, in Fayetteville and Carthage, we provide full-service family law representation to same-sex couples facing issues such as:

  • Divorce
  • Child custody
  • Child support
  • Alimony
  • Property division
  • Domestic violence

Additional challenges may include determining parental rights where one parent is biologically related to the child while the other may have adoption rights. Our team handles such scenarios by fostering constructive discussions and advocating for resolutions that prioritize the best interests of the children. We also consider the financial implications of a divorce, ensuring a fair distribution of assets to support long-term financial stability for our clients.

Frequently Asked Questions

How does child custody work in a same-sex divorce?

In a same-sex divorce, child custody is determined based on the best interests of the child, as in any divorce. Complications can arise if a child is not biologically related to one parent. North Carolina courts consider all factors to determine custody arrangements that best serve the child's needs.

It is essential to demonstrate active involvement in the child's life, such as participation in school activities, medical appointments, and day-to-day care routines, to establish a strong case for custody. Hardin Law Firm, PLLC helps parents evidence their essential roles in their children's lives through documented commitment and consistent involvement, advocating strongly for custody arrangements that reflect these relationships.

How is property division handled in a same-sex divorce?

Property division in same-sex divorces is subject to equitable distribution, meaning assets are divided fairly, though not necessarily equally. Our attorneys help identify all marital assets and propose fair solutions, taking into account the history of the relationship and prior legal unions from other states.

We recognize that LGBTQ+ couples might have entered into domestic partnerships or civil unions before marriage was legalized, potentially complicating asset division. Our comprehensive legal strategy examines these past relationships to ensure all assets are properly accounted for and divided in a just manner.

Can I get divorced in North Carolina if we married in another state?

Yes, if you reside in North Carolina, you can file for divorce here regardless of where you were married. As long as residency requirements are met—one partner must have lived in North Carolina for at least six months—you may proceed with the divorce.

Filing in North Carolina also involves demonstrating a one-year separation period before the divorce can be finalized. Hardin Law Firm, PLLC guides clients through these stipulations, ensuring thorough preparation and understanding, so they can move forward confidently and legally secure.

What are the legal grounds for divorce in North Carolina?

North Carolina allows for no-fault divorce based on separation for one year and one day. This applies to both same-sex and opposite-sex couples, emphasizing the equal legal standing same-sex couples enjoy under state law.

Occasionally, other factors such as incurable insanity or cases that warrant legal separation due to domestic issues may also form the grounds for divorce. Our firm provides clarity on the implications of these grounds and the necessary documentation required, guiding clients in choosing the avenue that best fits their situation for an organized and respectful proceeding.

Talk to a Lawyer About Your Same-Sex Family Law Needs

While divorce and family law matters affect all families, same-sex couples face unique challenges in regard to certain reproductive issues. We can provide you with the guidance you need regarding surrogacy, stored genetic material and other issues that affect your parental rights.

We believe in empowering our clients with knowledge. Same-sex couples may face complexities stemming from previous domestic partnerships, adoption issues, or legal recognition of prior relationships from other states. Our team carefully analyzes each case, taking into account how these factors alter the legal approach in Fayetteville.


You can reach us at (910) 565-6505 or connect with us online to schedule a consultation with an experienced same-sex divorce attorney in Fayetteville.


Hear From Our Clients.

  • “Ms. Hardin is the best attorney in Fayetteville and the surrounding area. She knows exactly what it takes to win your case.”

  • “If I could give 10 stars, I would. Ms. Hardin and her staff are the gold standard of professionalism.”

  • “I trusted all her advice and am very pleased with the results. Anyone looking for a good custody lawyer, she’s the one to go to!”

  • “Victoria Hardin is a fantastic attorney that genuinely cares about her clients.”

  • “Victoria and her firm exceeded my expectations. If you need a divorce, family law, custody or child support attorney, this is the firm you want. I cannot give enough stars, 5 isn’t enough.”

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